" silence "

                   Well it defiantly has been a little while sense I have blogged,that's the beauty of it though I can write what I want. I'm still on the right track, no one is perfect. Silence is something that I'm really not used to I usually speak it if I'm thinking it, which is not always a good thing. When your a kid you are taught that if you don't have anything to say than don't say anything at all, that is the right thing to do usually. You also need to remember that closed mouth's don't get fed either so if some thing is bothering you or weighing on your mind, if you are silent that is not good for anyone, it wont solve any problems, you cannot be positive and move forward without addressing whatever the issue may be big or small. I have learned to open my eyes and am able to view things with a different point of view. I really do feel as if I am on this journey to find myself, live my life in a way I never have before. I want to live it with enthusiasm excitement, pleasure, determination, happiness,  and complete awareness of all possibilities .  What usually causes you to be silent? fear - anxiety - doubt - confusion - lack of confidence - "silence is deadly" . It is such an easy thing to say you will do something, to want to do something, or even have the best intentions to do something. To actually do it is a little bit more difficult otherwise  it would have just been done (fixed).  "silence" is imperative only when you are supposed to be listening". Otherwise you'll never hear anything ,affecting your ability to move forward putting yourself in a rut. I  guess what I'm trying to get at is that learning when TO be silent and when NOT to be silent, also how to make that silence benefit you and not be harmful is one of the most important things you can teach yourself.